Kila and Ceaser had their second child, a daughter, Eva Katherine on March 4th, 2019. Shortly after she entered our world, she moved onto her next home, heaven. Eva was born with a rare and fatal, birth defect called Limb Body Wall Complex. LBWC affects approximately 1 in 15,000 pregnancies and hinders the infant’s ability to move or grow properly. Kila and Ceaser were made aware of her diagnosis, and impending death, when they were 16 weeks pregnant. Kila carried Eva 33 weeks until she was born via emergency c-section.
Through their journey of grief after Eva’s birth, Kila and Ceaser began praying fervently that God would provide a way that he could use their experience and their lives to help others who have experienced a loss as life altering as theirs and bring God glory in the process.
Kila decided to further her training and knowledge on the grief and loss process through Still Birthday Academy. She became a Certified Birth & Bereavement Doula, and to start her non-profit organization: I Will Carry You. Their mission is providing free birth and bereavement doula services to families experiencing any type of pregnancy or infant loss in Northeast Louisiana. They do so regardless of a family's income, race, religion, marital status, or other pre-qualifying factors that others may consider. The website quotes their founder Kila by saying:
“Pregnancy and infant loss is one of the most devastating, earth-shattering, and life-altering things a family can endure, and we, at I Will Carry You, want to help carry them through it. Our community is severely lacking in the support and resources that grieving families need, and we pray that we can make a difference by providing help, healing, and hope through I Will Carry You.”
Today, Kila and Ceaser are parents to five, beautiful children. Three living children, Maxwell, Mia, and Luke, and their two little ones in heaven, Gabriella and Eva Katherine.














